Venus or Mars in Cancer
When Venus or Mars is in Cancer, you'll get one of the most sensitive and sweet lovers. When they're not pouting, they are romantic and gooey with you. They are turned on by slave scenarios, and they may like it when you're a little mean and aggressive in bed, as long as they know you love them. Some of them are turned on by the idea of making a baby, and others just love the idea of being all yours in bed. They are known as the sign most attracted to breasts, and they generally like their men rather masculine and their women feminine, at least in fantasy. They don't always let you know what turns them on, and expect you to intuit their sexual needs. Their style in bed is protective and soothing.
The Cancerian female is very shy, although very sensual and erotic in her reserved depths. She will never make the first move, due to a lingering sensitivity about her appearance. She is a romantic at heart, and prefers the traditional approaches, such that any partner of hers will be wooed with food in an old-fashioned manner.
She is anything but old-fashioned when it comes to the actual lovemaking, however. Sure, she’s no athlete, prefers one position most of the time, but her physical desires are insatiable, and once she has that one full-time lover that she can trust completely, she will wear them out with her dynamism in bed.
She wants nothing so much as security for herself and her family, and will labor patiently and with great subtlety towards this goal, while avoiding impulse behavior. She is chock full of maternal instinct, with which she nurtures everyone who is allowed to become part of her exclusive family circle.
One of the biggest turn-ons for a female born under this sign is soul kissing-deep kissing, with full use of the tongue and teeth. They have been known to kiss to orgasm. This is second only to your voice in her ear. Be rougher than you think you should. She is the happy slave.
However, the most sensitive are of the body are the breasts. Both sexes will respond to oral and manual stimulation of their nipples. Caresses of the underside of the breast create the most urgent sensations of sexual desire. They also like the "winding" movement, when the nipple is held between thumb and forefinger and wound like a watch. Even late in intercourse, rough squeezing or pinching at the breast or nipples will add to their pleasure. Sex in the water or bathtub is often a fantasy.
The actions of Cancer natives are governed by feelings and emotions that are both strong and out-rushing. When these individuals love, they love forever. The extremely tough outer shell makes it difficult for others to truly penetrate the heart of a Cancer person but once such is achieved, the loved one becomes pampered, adored and likely to be the focus of Cancer's feelings and moods. It is instinctive in the Cancer character to nourish and dote upon the object of the heart and this can be all-encompassing in virtually every way. Traditional and home-oriented by nature, the Cancer male prefers to follow the proper rules of courtship...to fall in love and then make the arrangement a permanent one.
Likewise, the Cancer female is prone to wait until her partner makes the move...regardless of how strong her own feelings might be. There is no other Zodiac Sign that can equal the intensity of a Cancer native's love, but such love is based upon the heart with its worse tendency to be smothering. A Cancer native who feels insecure in a relationship is liable to become demanding...either sulking and hurt in silent fashion or making it verbally plain as to what is wrong and why. The outer shell protects Cancer from giving too soon and often, those ruled by this Sign will hold onto a loved one with a tenacious grip that may be almost impossible to break. Still, the actions of Cancer will always be driven by a true depth of feeling and the object of desire will constantly hold a cherished spot in the Cancer heart, even long after the relationship has ended.
In terms of protection, Cancer possesses a fierce and loyal strength that cannot be surpassed. In the romantic arena, physical contact is not definable without emotions for those governed by this Sign. They must feel something with relative strength for their truest feelings to emerge. These are tender souls who are essentially partner oriented and very concerned with pleasing their mates, perceiving the returning emotions as nurturing proof of the partner's love. For Cancer individuals, the sexual act is attached to all things which mean security, loyalty and truth of the heart. Their needs are apt to fluctuate in accordance with their moods and emotional state. The same can be said for their intensity and level of desire. Nonetheless, a Cancer native who is in love and feels secure will intuitively understand as much and regard same as the joyful gift that it is.
Emotional and possessing great depth, Cancer individuals are endowed with a dreamy and imaginative quality. These natives can be swept off their feet by love, but are still perfectly capable of making a wise long term commitment and putting earlier and less suitable potential partners out of their minds when the time comes to choose a mate. There is a definite charm here and those governed by this Sign often attract others romantically without being aware of the fact, which can result in the breaking of hearts.
Still, natives of Cancer are invariably full of good intentions and would certainly never inflict hurt on purpose. These are persons who suffer much from relatives, friends and loved ones...their sicknesses or troubles...and although healthy and independent of spirit themselves, Cancer natives are often in touch with life's problems through others, despite the desire to run away. The Cancer individual who chooses the wrong partner will be a very unhappy soul and this state of misery is liable to reign for a long time, since this is a person who rarely has the courage to admit that he or she made a mistake. However, with the right partner, the Cancer native will find that success, contentment and fulfillment follow as a natural course of events.
It will be necessary for a potential mate to provide both the feeling and obvious presence of security in order to achieve longevity with a Cancer native. Having a place which, in the classical sense, is a home will be of paramount importance to those governed by this Sign...they must receive support and help in finding, maintaining and improving their "nests." In addition, those ruled by Cancer must be made to feel most welcome and at home in a potential partner's residence when they come to visit. For instance, the potential mate could prepare and serve a good meal...or allow the Cancer native the pleasure of preparing something.
However, it is important not to be remiss in offering sincere compliments about the Cancer expertise in any culinary efforts. In addition, points may be earned by stating nice things (or even bragging) about the Cancer native's family. A relationship with those governed by Cancer is sure to be short-lived if anything that is emotionally or materially meaningful is taken away...even on a temporary basis. To do so is comparable to removing a stone from the foundation of a building. Thus, a potential mate must always be guarded in what he or she says because the words...however unintentional...might be almost as painful as piercing arrows. Cancer works extremely hard to maintain an overall sense of security and unkind or thoughtless comments can cause these natives to quickly withdraw into their protective shell for fear that some additional damage will be done to their self-image. Most importantly, criticism should never be voiced regarding a Cancer individual's mother or other members of the family.
When it comes to long term commitments, Cancer individuals who are in solid and secure relationships can easily support the nuances of such partnerships since it is inherent in their character to nourish and supplement the changing nature of the union. Nevertheless, it will be important for any mate to understand the emotional vulnerability of this Sign and the manner in which those who fall under its jurisdiction cope with the situation via built-in defense mechanisms. It cannot be denied that Cancer individuals are prone to a certain moodiness and such is the way they can learn to bend and flow and provide what is needed to nurture those around them. The more a partner leans to enhance the Cancer ability to detach from what is transpiring and learn the truth of personal power which results in emotional freedom, then the less this natural moodiness will manifest in overt ways.
The Cancer female is truly affectionate and kind. She will be devoted to family and friends and is inherently very sentimental and charitable...particularly where illness or trouble is concerned. However, unless completely satisfied with her position in life, which includes an active and monogamous physical relationship, this woman can become inconsistent and fickle. Here, there is a combination of loneliness and loveliness. More than anything else, the Cancer female desires security. Her home is not only her castle, but also a moated fortress which stands against all the trials and tribulations of the world. Indeed, this need for feeling safe is so strong that if a partner cannot provide it, the Cancer woman is certain to stray and begin to look elsewhere...but if such is furnished, then she will be incredibly faithful, loyal and charming.
Domestication means everything to this female, which is not to say that she is so much into material things. Rather, she rather wishes to share everything with her mate and her house and home are symbolic of this desire. Blessed with a highly developed sense of intuition, it is impossible to keep secrets from this woman or conceal an interest in someone else. Not only will she know in advance when something important is about to happen, she also in some strange way knows what her partner is doing...with whom, as well as where and when. In short, the woman ruled by Cancer is nobody's fool.
Above all else, this female requires constant assurance that she is loved, which could mean devoting more time to the romantic arena that a partner may be accustomed to. In order to achieve happiness with this woman, it will be necessary to constantly appeal to her loving nature and emotions. Under no circumstances should she ever be belittled or subjected to scorn and/or sarcasm. In addition, it would be unwise to criticize this female, even if it is felt that such comments are necessary and helpful. The Cancer woman is naturally supersensitive and can all too easily develop an inferiority complex if her attention is called to some peculiarity she may possess.
One such idiosyncrasy is likely to be the tendency to collect, rescue and save things that others would probably consider to be totally useless items. Stray pets...and possibly even stray people...could well find their way to this woman's doorstep. When contented and secure, the Cancer female makes for an excellent partner and a loving mother...one who will sacrifice anything and everything for those she loves.
The Cancer woman may well consider a committed relationship as something of a status symbol. At times, she might even consider giving up quite a passionate romance in exchange for a more stable partnership. As a mate, she tends to be somewhat clinging...perhaps a little too clinging for some individuals...but then, she does have a knack for boosting a partner's ego. By her very nature, this woman likes to "mother" any partner if given the chance...but she does appreciate being told not to fuss overly much . This is a woman who likes to be mastered.
She is not particularly interested in winning every argument, nor does she care if she comes out on top all the time. Feminine in her walk and her mannerisms, the Cancer woman is considered to be very seductive...often unconsciously so. In a long term commitment, she should be allowed to go her own way in every small matter and "bossed" in the larger ones. She will provide an attractive and artistic home, but will not always necessarily want to remain there. This woman needs an anchor...a mate who will constantly be reliable in the emotional sense. She needs a shoulder to cry on and also likes to share her laughter.
The Cancer female is essentially a feminine soul and will undoubtedly seek for a partner with very masculine traits. For a relationship to last, it will be necessary for any mate to realize that the moods of a woman governed by Cancer are changeable. She must be treated with love and ruled with an iron fist in a velvet glove. It is important to respect this female's opinions and views and avoid arguments as much as possible...particularly over trivial matters since any partner is probably destined to come off worst. She appears to have more self-confidence that she truly possesses, so it will be necessary to provide her with constant reassurance.
Her beauty is of the librarian-letting-her-hair-down variety. That said, Cancer may be the perfect sign for a lover seeking pampering and seduction, someone who is willing to learn a thing or two in the game of love. An honest love -- and lover -- become Cancer, for it is in this safe environment that they are best able to create a warm home and indulge their nurturing instincts. Sex and love are synonymous for the cancerian.
A favorite technique is to put his penis between a her breasts, close enough to her mouth so that she can flick her tongue over its tip. The combination massage by breasts and tongue increases his pleasure-and adds a good deal to the excitement of foreplay for her.
What aids Cancer in lovemaking is her superb power of recollection. She remembers everything she has ever done that has aroused a man to passion. As she carries those youthful experiences with her, she adds many imaginative refinements.
Although she is receptive, she will never make the first move. She is much too shy, and she is also afraid that if she emerges too far from her shell, she will meet with criticism. She has to be encouraged in the subtlest way until her erotic imagination is freed of its inhibitions. She has to be shown that she can act in love as she really feels, respond with the kind of actions that will strongly excite a lover, and not fear the promptings of her own desire.
Her sensitive nature is much influenced by the attitude of her partner. If he is understanding, sympathetic, kind, considerate, she will unfold to him as a flower does to the warming rays of the sun. But it is all too easy to frighten her into a shy and secretive retirement with a harsh word or a wrong gesture or expression. The shell of her self-confidence cracks too easily.
She can be a marvelous lover, for she is capable of intense sensuality. The joy she feels on the release of previous restraints will delight any lover. She will reciprocate passion with a fervor that will stir his heart and stimulate him to his best performance. She may even become a slave to sexual pleasure once she has achieved it.
However, always remember that with this woman the time and occasion also have to be right. Don't expect to make out in the back seat of a car. She must believe that you care, and you must be in a place where she's entirely comfortable.
Her own nest is best, for home is her terrain. (Your place will do only if she's been there often enough not to feel like a stranger.) In fact, when the big night arrives, she will probably invite you to dinner at her place. Don't be too aggressive, though, or you may never get from the dining room into the bedroom. In love, unlike the racetrack, the race is not always to the swift.
Another ambiance that works is the beach at night, especially by the light of the silvery moon. The magnetic rays of her ruling satellite dazzle her, the pounding surf deafens her with nature's melody. She is apt to shed all her inhibitions and reveal a side of her nature you never knew existed-wanton and wild and wonderful.
The fully sensual Cancer woman likes to anoint her fingers with honey or wine and caress her mate's sex organ until it becomes a steeple. Her touch is as light and gentle as a leaf falling. Her fingers slowly climb the steeple until it quivers with ecstatic readiness. Sometimes she stops there and helps her partner to masturbate. Sometimes she will slowly suck off the honey or wine until climax occurs. Most often she will just stop short of completion in order to mount her love and lead him on to orgasm.
Sometimes she heightens oral intercourse for the male with a flavor-or sometimes she insists that her partner coat his male parts with some flavoring.
Favorite position: lying prone while the man enters her from behind. That satisfies her innate modesty-she doesn't have to been seen having an orgasm.
This is not going to be a quickie contest. In fact, it will more likely develop to where it's all or nothing, live or die, marry or part forever. Weigh your decision carefully. If you lose her, she will always be a vagrant, haunting memory. You won't get into her bedroom until she's sure of your long-term intentions. She may be feminine, but she's no man's fool.
When she finds real love, she will go out for her mate, and she is fully capable of becoming the most satisfying sex partner in the zodiac! Her sincerity in the act of love makes her the worst possible candidate in any "play for pay" arrangement-whether as a prostitute, call girl, or simply a marriage arranged for material reasons. She can't fake a sexual response.
However, in the right circumstances, she can be a devoted mistress, provided she knows the man is truly unable to marry her or that he is genuine in his belief that marriage does not matter. She is passionately loyal once she has committed herself to a man. Any man who wins her for a mistress would be well advised to make her a wife-just to make sure he doesn't lose this treasure!
Not that he has to worry much about losing her. She is the prototype for the song "Stand by Your Man." She will stand by him even though he's an alcoholic or a bully.
They are attracted to water sports, so invite them for a day at the beach or to an aquacade. If you pick a private enough beach or one where there are no laws against it, your Cancer companion will gladly join you in skinny dipping.
Never, never refer to other love affairs. Cancer people are not interested in those who were important in your life before they came on the scene.
General dating advice: Those born under this sign never like to be taken for granted. If he shows up in a new suit, notice it; if she's wearing new earrings, remark on them. And try to be especially careful about their well-known hypersensitivity. If this sort of thing crops up, try to mend matters before the injury burrows too deep.
If you want to cancel a date because you're not feeling well, don't do it. You'd be a fool not to let Cancer show their strong protective side. They are the towers of strength, the lighthouses in a fog that everyone needs when under the weather. Let him or her come over with fruit and flowers, with a new book to read to you, with a new record to play, or just to sit by you and hold your hand. Let them give you your medicines, take your temperature, and feed you hot soup. Anyone who hasn't experienced the solicitous affection of the Cancerian for someone he or she cares about doesn't know the chief delight of becoming seriously involved with them. It's just another way of showing possessiveness, but take advantage of it without inquiring too deeply into the reasons.
Call it Moon magic.
What Cancer wants most is a partner who can take things slow and easy, secure in the knowledge that the ultimate victory will be sweet for both. An exchange of emotions is also ideal for the Crab, whether it's through sex, sports, or some passionately-penned correspondence.
Cancer
If Venus is in Cancer in your chart, it produces deeply sensitive feelings. This extreme sensitivity means that feelings can be easily hurt, but you hide this vulnerability behind a somewhat dignified exterior.
You have a very kindhearted and sympathetic nature, but your moods can be fluctuating and unpredictable. You approach love relationships with tenderness and great need, but there is always a sense of caution too. You know you are easily hurt and you want to protect yourself at all times.
The attitude toward relationships is one of nurturing or "mothering," clinging tightly to those you love. You need to be well anchored in a relationship as the feeling of security and stability is all important to you. You like your mate to be demonstrative and provide you with clear signs that your deep feelings are appreciated and returned in kind. To you, love is home and hearth, a nest that is safe and secure. When you achieve this feeling of security, you focus on pay back in kind by doing all you can to nourish your partner's ego and ambitions.
Avoid tendencies to sulk and feel sorry for yourself. Your feeling are so easily hurt, and you try to hide it by pretending it doesn't matter. Sometimes emotions take over, and sentimentality runs wild. You demand so much in romance that you are bound to have a few disappointments along the way. Your "one and only" cannot be one who does not provide the stability you must have. So you must ultimately suffer some breakups when you discover that attribute is missing. You are definitely the one-lover type. When that one stable love comes along, the relationship will be permanent.
Mars in Cancer
In Cancer, the Mars energies are largely of the emotional sort. While physical endeavors and practical affairs may find the energy to function satisfactorily, mental energies are apt to struggle.
This placement often causes actions to be tinged with a very sensitive flavor. You express your energies in a very emotional fashion. Much of the assertiveness of Mars is turned toward the domestic scene. There is a cautious side and much defensiveness in your nature. This placement of Mars is not very physical or competitive, and not inclined to any sort of combat, physical or mental. Mars in Cancer has a very positive side, as it often shows a quiet, peaceful nature. While being very protective of your "turf," you are never too assertive or demanding. In your work, you rarely compromise your views, and prefer working independently and in control of affairs. You are ambitious, and a hard worker.
Since you are not, by nature, an aggressive person, you pursue your desires in a round-about or start-stop manner. You frequently change your direction and your goals. You strive for security, and a good deal of your energy goes into this effort. In this regard, you are fiercely protective of family, co-workers, organization, or to whatever you devote yourself. You may be known for the strength of your patriotism and loyalty.
Because of these strong moods and feelings, you are a very sexual and sensual person. You are also very loyal in relationships, and certainly demanding of the same from your partner. Infidelity threatens your sense of security and is therefore unacceptable.
There is an intensity of these emotions that often results in moodiness and discord in your domestic relations. Your digestion is strongly affected by your moods and feelings. With energies tied to feelings, you are prone to become very angry inside. If this anger is suppressed it can result in ulcers and stomach upset.
With another Leo, it is a question of who is going to give up the spotlight. Two individuals born under Leo, when together, represent charm, entertainment and personality plus. But it could be too much of a good thing. To make the relationship succeed, each Leo must be willing to step back, to permit the other to show off special talents and abilities.
If you are pursuing a Leo woman, maintain an air of mystery. She loves to hear about herself, read her palm and check her horoscope. She demands that you be aware of her. A touch, a gesture, a secret signal something special - that's the way to woo and win the Leo lady. Your own manner should be regal. She will never be your equal-you must lead or follow.
She wants you to want her for more than physical reasons. She values herself. She doesn't give herself away. That is, you must court her; thoughtful gifts mean more to her than the expensive variety. She needs to be needed. Make yourself a fascinating challenge. Involvement with a Leo woman can be fatiguing, but you will learn about life and living and love. Her nature is fiery; she is sincere, passionate, giving, and generous. If you win her, the prize will be a great one. She is stubborn, but she is usually trying to work out what is best for you.
Recognize her good qualities, which are numerous, in being amorous, avoid being coarse.
Sex, for the Leo lady, is just one part of love. It is the rhythm of life but to be a part of her life you must first earn her admiration.
Seducing a Leo
With Leo, you might begin in the bath. The back is a particularly vulnerable area. Work gently down along the spine across the buttocks down to the calves, then on the way up linger a little in the small of the back. Leo will be purring-and probably inviting you into the tub!
Turn on a female Leo by running a feather or your fingertips lightly from the shoulder to the small of her back down her legs and up to the shoulders again. Go over the same area, lingering a little longer in that sensitive area above the small of the back. By then, she'll be a passionate lioness.
She abhors the humdrum, routine, and stupid. Try to be dramatic. She revels in the creative, in excitement, could be an addict of the theater and she will share the spotlight if she feels you really have something others would admire. Remember Leo doesn’t love, Leo worships. She will make you feel like the king to the queen she is. She's unusual, complicated, and opinionated but she can be one of the most beautiful experiences in your life.
Moon in Aquarius is apt to have given you a special concern for humankind. Often, the placement denotes someone who has very fixed and determined humanitarian instincts, and who participates in activities directed toward the poor or homeless. You relate well to humanity, if not always to individuals.
The physical home is not especially important to you, and you may change your residence often or have rather unconventional living arrangements. Some may describe your lifestyle as "bohemian," modern or offbeat.
An Aquarius Moon produces reactions which are progressive, but often erratic. Your friends may consider you unusual and unpredictable. Your imagination is fertile, and it produces a lot of creative energy.
It may be that you enjoy a good confrontation now and then and really don't want things to go too smoothly. A little on the high-strung side, you don't like things to get too routine and boring. The quickest way to end a relationship for you is to have the other person begin to take you for granted and cease to challenge you in a variety of ways.
Saturn in Pisces
Saturn in Pisces produces a sensitivity in your dealing with world at large. When making your way in the world, you may feel vulnerable and defenseless. This a depressive placement that can make you feel a little paranoid sometimes, often looking on the dark side of a situation rather than the bright side. You may sometimes feel like you are a victim of circumstances or a martyr of sorts. If properly channeled, your sensitive side can be a plus. The productive aspect of this placement is in the ability to exercise compassion in society with a pragmatic approach. Your road to success may be in the artistic, spiritual, or even the psychic. Religious beliefs may be the cornerstone of your life, filling a need for structure and security. Your test in life may be one of developing confidence in your innate abilities. You may need to learn to trust and get in touch with your subconscious. The source of your creativity may be hidden there.
Venus in 12th House
Shyness regarding sex. Secret relationships. What happens in
Vegas stays in Vegas.
Demands discretion. Wants the unobtainable. Duty and vocation are strong, as is
the spiritual dimension of the personality.
Mars in 12th House
This placing indicates a tremendous drive for self-knowledge and analysis. Secretive, with vivid fantasy life, and a genuine interest in counselling.
8th House
It's also the house of tax and shared finances. Sex.
This is the natural house of Scorpio, so think of some of the association of Scorpio and Pluto - depth, getting to the fundamentals of something, insight.
8th house have a deep interest in psychology, unconscious motivations and transformation.
In terms of sex and death, they tend to be deeply intrigued by the secrets and mysteries of human existence, including the darker truths of the human world.
It certainly doesn't make them any likelier to die sooner or less pleasantly than people with the other eleven house placements. No need to worry.
Since the 8th house also has to do with other people's money, you may inherit lots of money, or even win big at lottery, get a lot of money from spouse.
Also read somewhere that it represents a person who was abandoned by their father or absent from their lives.
May make careless with credit cards according to Bob Marks.
With personal planets in the eighth house, he or she will definitely be very intense and have a certain depth about them.
A strong/stressed 8th house gives the person a certain LONER-quality ... They thrive on spending time alone, quite often. They can appear "evasive" or "erratic" ... but 8th house people have the privilege of not feeling "lonely" as easily as others ... because they like dealing with their "internal matters" all by themselves. The loner part is true. In death we stand alone. They are self-declared loners and may like that. (In fact ... adding this "missing father"-thought ... maybe they HAVE to be able to get along on their own, seeking guidance within themselves ... and can gain personal strength through that.)
They see life in pretty grey tones - they have a conscious awareness of death in daily life.
But their devotion and tenacity is beyond compare.
A positive manifestation of this would be someone who would be loyal to the end
While a negative manifestation would be overt evilness.
However, evilness is not likely to manifest very much because the karma in the 8th is great, and the bearer is very conscious of and understands this.
Many planets in the 8th point to an old soul, someone who has to bear a certain burden, but who has a special purpose, and is a natural investigator, counselor, and excellent researcher.
They can also be mysterious, and can conjure a cloud of mystery very easily. This makes them excellent tricksters, and gives them a seductive aura, all the result of the 8th house.
Independent, and loner types, coupled with inner strength and tolerance for difficult circumstances.Very penetrating.
8th house people are not easy to approach. All matters concerned with "intimacy" (craving it - or avoiding it) may be an ever repeated topic in their lives, depending on how their 8th-house-planets are aspected. CAN have "clingy" streaks in their personality ... or the other way round: Being as evasive as hell.
